I’ve been hanging around with this guy, his name’s Phil. I met him at a party and we’ve been hanging out for well over a month now. We got together on Valentine’s day, and he cooked me chicken alfredo and we had some wine; it was so adorable. At first, I thought it’d just be a fun little fling for the hell of it, but I’ve really really been starting to like him the past few weeks. I’m just so frustrated since we’re not official or anything at all, but he went through all the trouble to do that for me Valentine’s day, and we get together a few times a week and party together almost every weekend. Oh yeah, don’t forget the making out. I have no idea what to think.
So far it would sound to anyone like we’re perfect. Well, unless we’re together in person, we don’t talk. He never never texts, and it’s a MIRACLE if he answers to my texts. He NATs me like crazy (me and one of my bff’s terms for ‘not acknowledging that’), and it’s irritating. He rarely answers to semi-important texts or questions. At least he’ll answer his phone when I rarely call… But he sure as hell was quick to answer it for pizza last Friday (ugh).
Okay, I really like him, and I totally see the potential. He’s fucking hilarious and gets along with every one of my friends, and they love him to death. But he can just piss me off. There’s like no effort by him to make anything happen.
It’s hard to not, but should I even bother anymore?
